Are you single?
Have you tried to mingle, and the guys you meet just don’t cut it?
I feel you.
Dating has become quite a jungle, with the best ones taken and committed and the ones you have to stay away from still on the hunt.
It is survival of the fittest. Some people seem to have grabbed their soul mates early on. Now, you are still wondering when it will be your turn.
So, sometimes, you wish you could design your boyfriend.
At first, it sounds like science fiction or a horror story a la Frankenstein, but it is not. It is more spiritual and emotional than it may seem.
But you may need to think again, too. Sometimes, simply opening your eyes may let you see who has always been there all along.
Whatever your situation may be, you may follow steps on how to manifest a boyfriend.
Steps to Manifesting a Boyfriend
#1 – Know your Purpose
It all begins with you. Whatever you are trying to achieve in this world, you need to know yourself better. Dig into your psyche and find out why you need a boyfriend in the first place.
Manifesting love is serious business. You need to know why you want to do it in the first place. Is it a general search for true love, or do you have a specific person in mind?
If you are looking for specific characteristics, can you reciprocate the goodness that comes from them?
#2 – Get to know Yourself
If you want to know your purpose, you should also examine yourself more closely. Look in the literal and metaphysical mirror.
Who are you, really? Do you need a relationship to complete you, or do you just crave love? Without a boyfriend, do you know what to do to make your dreams happen?
There is nothing wrong with knowing how to manifest a boyfriend, but you need to understand your motivations.
Is it a need for real love, commitment, and a desire to settle down that motivates you? Or is it loneliness that fuels your search?
#3 – Look around You
Sometimes, it is not even a matter of not getting what you want. Often, the man who is meant to be with you may already be there, somewhere.
It may sound cliche, but it seems true what they say about the person for you being right in front of you all along.
It is not true all the time, though, but it is worth investigating. The Universe may have already given you what you have always wanted, but you have ignored it.
The person may not seem like ideal soul mate material right away. However, you may want to know what he is all about first. Get to know the ones around you. Maybe the boyfriend you wish for is already there.
So, steps one and two are really critical. You need to understand what you feel before you conclude that the person for you has not already been manifested in the Universe.
#4 – Kick Negativity to the Curb
Have you ever told yourself, “I will never meet that special person”?
Have you ever thought that everyone has it good, except for you? You need to get rid of these limiting beliefs. The more you say it is impossible to meet the perfect partner, the more you squeeze your eyes shut against all the possibilities.
Do not let your negative thoughts affect your attitude. It is harder to get a good boyfriend when your own behavior has taken a turn for the worse.
Like attracts like. So, if you are always sad and angry, you tend to attract sad and angry people, too.
#5 – Create Positivity in Everything
Of course, the opposite of negativity is positivity. Every positive thought that you invest into your quest to find the perfect partner boosts your charm.
Even if you are not actively manifesting, positive affirmations can help you become a more attractive person to others.
People tend to gravitate towards people who see everything in a good light. It does not mean to say that you will blind yourself in rose-colored glasses. You should still be aware of reality. However, you should also continuously focus on good things.
What are you projecting to the world? If you show negativity, it may be what you will get back. So, you want a good partner? You need to be a good partner, too.
#6 – Visualize the Type of Relationship You want to be in
But what do you consider to be a good relationship? The perfect boyfriend will hinge on this concept.
Imagine how your perfect partner behaves in various relationship situations:
– What would he be like during downtimes? Would he stick around enough to comfort you? Would he rather be out there trying to solve the problem? Would he leave?
– What would he be like during happy times? Will he make sure he shares everything with you? Or would he crave his own happy time? Would he have a perfect balance between the two?
– How would you like your perfect boyfriend to act? What does he look like? What actually matters?
#7 – Create a Vision Board
If simply sitting and thinking about how you want your perfect boyfriend to act and look like does not work for you, try creating a vision board.
What is a boyfriend vision board, anyway?
A boyfriend vision board shows all the characteristics you want from a boyfriend. Different people have different ways of conveying their boyfriend’s vision board.
You can, for example, take a picture of someone’s hair, another person’s eyes, and so on. It seems like a Frankenstein kind of thing going on, but it is not morbid.
It is usual for you to be attracted to a particular feature. Why can’t you try to manifest someone who has all your favorite features rolled into one?
How To Manifest Real Love with A Boyfriend Vision Board
Manifesting a boyfriend is one thing, but what can you do to make sure what you are creating is real love?
- How Does A Boyfriend Vision Board Work?
A vision board works well because it lets you dig deeper into yourself.
As you put in more pictures, you are not only getting closer to what your want a boyfriend to look and act like. You are also getting closer to understanding yourself and what you need.
- Why Create A Boyfriend Vision Board?
Create a boyfriend vision board so that you can better understand what you are asking the Universe for. If your mind is still cluttered, you may not be able to envision what you truly want.
The process of creating the board can also be relaxing. You cut pictures. You may even draw and stick some important little pieces from your life that you want to be part of this perfect boyfriend.
So, instead of your mind being too focused on the fact that you may not have a boyfriend yet, you focus on the vision board.
The dreams become more real as you put every little detail onto your vision board.
- How To Create Your Boyfriend Vision Board
How do you make one? There is no one way to do it. It is up to you.
You can begin with a typical vision board the designers often use when creating their brief.
Then, you can paste or tack photos onto the board. Every day, you can look at the result to help you with your visualization and meditation.
#8 – Remind Yourself that Rejection can be a Positive Experience
Negative energy may have been a result of a terrible experience. If you have just been rejected or dumped, it may not be the right time to seek new love.
Give yourself some time to heal and achieve inner peace first. Your mind should be clear and not affected by a negative mindset.
In fact, you can find positive energy from a rejection. Instead of seeing it as an adverse event, you can look at it as a chance to find happiness in new love.
Perhaps the guy was never right for you. Dwell in the gratitude that the person who could have hurt you more is now out of your life.
#9 – Listen to Music
To manifest love, you need to be brimming with a positive vibe. One way you can achieve that is through meditation. Meditation can be supported by listening to the right type of music.
Music comes with its own vibrations. Find some tunes that can help you achieve a particular frequency. That frequency will instill positive thoughts and feeling into you.
#10 – Utter Love Affirmations
Positive statements are helpful. These mantras can direct you towards a particular way of thinking and emotion.
Think of a mantra that declares what you want in a boyfriend you want to manifest.
Is it unconditional love? Do you want a soul mate with a specific set of qualities?
Then, create a statement or two and repeat these statements over and over. By doing so, you are passing on the message to the Universe. You are telling it that this is what you want and that you believe it can become true.
It may sound silly to you at first. However, the mind is a powerful thing. Soon, it will become your truth. Hold on to these positive statements.
#11 – Trust the Universe
As you have passed on the words to the Universe, trust that it will help you achieve your goal.
Trust the Universe, and it will provide you with what you need. The confidence and positivity that you have can carry from one point to another better than negative thoughts.
After all, negative energy weighs down anything. Therefore, trust and positive thoughts will lift your dreams towards their goals.
#12 – Cooperate with the Universe
Just like anything that you ask for, you need to do some work on your end.
So, you want a soul mate, someone who loves you and cares for you. You want someone with a good job and willing to work with you as equal partners.
But are you doing anything about it?
Or are you simply sitting down at home, meditating? While meditation to connect yourself to the Universe is excellent. You do have to go out there and do your part.
Potential men will see the positivity in you if you actually leave your house to be open to whatever the Universe is set out to do for you.
Cooperate with the Universe. Be one with it. Do not find what your mind is trying to connect to. Your physical body must also be into it.
#13 – Use the Law of Attraction in Your Life
Sometimes, generally, using the Law of Attraction to achieve something smaller may work to your advantage.
Maybe start working on manifesting more minor things before you get to more serious ones, such as manifesting love.
#14 – Be Who You are Looking For
It has been said in other ways, but manifesting a boyfriend requires improving yourself. What you ask for should be reflected in you, too.
Do you want a loyal boyfriend? Then, look within yourself? Do you give value to loyalty, as well?
Be who you are looking for. After all, “like” attracts “like.”
In the End…
Manifesting a boyfriend is possible. However, you need to better understand why and if you need one.
If you realize you want one only because people expect you to have one, you may not be going on the right track. The same goes if you are looking for a boyfriend who will help you forget your past issues.
A boyfriend is not a sticky plaster that will heal all your pain and cover all your wounds. Instead, you should willingly be part of a relationship that you are ready to commit to.
So, you should begin by getting yourself ready. You are half of the equation. You can make it work by being the person you have been looking for. Manifest not only a boyfriend but someone you can love and who will love you truly.