If you are bored of the same old vanilla sex, you may look no further than some car sex.
Yes, there is no need to do it on a cliff or while trying not to get in trouble in a plane lavatory.
Car sex is enough to challenge your creativity with sex positions. Car sex positions are supported by all kinds of well, nontraditional accessories: the car handle and the leather seats are just the most obvious ones.
How To Have Sex in Car
While sex is a natural thing, you need to know just how to have sex in the car without getting in trouble.
After all, you can be charged with a misdemeanor.
You might even end up with a head injury.
So, how do you even go about it?
Even though we would like to think of sex as natural and spontaneous, a little planning will help.
Some of these steps suggest that you two have preplanned the whole thing.
This is actually very good! This means plus points towards consent.
Dress up for the occasion
If you know you are going on a steamy date, make sure you wear easily removable clothes. Imagine fumbling through zippers and denim in the heat of the moment inside a car?
Yeah, that would be uncomfortable and perhaps even a little frustrating.
If the woman decides to wear a frilly skirt or a dress instead, things are a little easier.
The man only needs to lift up the hem higher, and the two of you are good to go. It is also great for foreplay to have a warm hand up a naked thigh.
Choose a private place
While you may be thrilled about the idea of public sex, steer clear. You may get charged with a lewd act or indecent exposure.
The best thing to do is find a private place, such as the woods, if there are no killers on the loose in your area.
If you are a parent, even the garage can be an exciting place to do it without having to leave your home – and your children -completely unattended. Just lock the door and make sure the lights are off, too.
Go for nighttime romps
Concerning the light issue, doing it in darkness is a lot safer. This way, you will not inadvertently create a show – even if you did decide to park out of the way of people.
Even if your parked car is in a private enough place, you certainly do not want to do it in daylight. Even if the side windows are tinted, you still have the front to worry about.
Find a comfortable space
It’s a car. So, yeah, it is not going to be as comfy as your bed. However, it will definitely spice up your sex life. The two of you have taken a conscious decision to fuck instead of making love this time around.
The car does have some comfy spaces, such as the back seat. Even the passenger seat is slightly more comfortable compared to the driver’s seat. But hey, your comfort will also depend on what sex positions you two crave.
You will be having sex in a car. So, you may have to pace yourself. You cannot go too fast and furious. Think about bumping into the gear shift or the emergency brake. It will certainly take away the heat of the moment.
Keep cool with the AC
It can get really hot as you two experiment with all types of sexual acts inside a car. So, you can keep both the AC and emergency brake on. Sweating it out is fine but can kill the moment, too, especially if you live in a hot and humid area.
Open the sunroof for air
You can also take advantage of the nighttime air if you want to turn your engine completely off. Open that sunroof and get it on.
The sunroof can also be used for something else. Oral sex can make you feel even hotter if you can see your partner doing everything to make you climax. However, not seeing him/her can also amp up the excitement.
How would your boyfriend feel about standing up with his head up the sunroof while you pleasure him from within the car?
Use mirrors for added titillation
If you like watching yourself have sex, you can use some of the mirrors in the car. It is one thing to have hot penetrative sex and another to see yourself doing it. It will certainly amp up the temperature. You will feel like you are starring in your own sexy noir movie.
Take advantage of accessories
Do you want a little bondage with your car sex? You can make use of the seat belt. Imagine getting tied up while receiving oral sex in the backseat?
Go for quickies
Even if you are not technically in a public space, the possibility of being in public view is there.
So, hopefully, when you get there, you are already in the mood for something hot. Make sure your car door is locked, and lock those lips together.
Do it while parked
While this may seem like common sense, some women who are too seductive for their own good find it a good idea to go down on their partners while they drive. In theory, it may sound great.
Okay, I lied. It still sounds terrible.
What may feel like an exciting scene from an erotic thriller movie may well be a scene in a horror one. You will feel that as both of you get wheeled into the emergency room – or worse.
Best Positions for Sex in car
Now that we know just how to make car sex happen, what are some of the positions that can work?
Cowgirl (car girl – a la on your lap sex)
Some people even refer to this as the car girl, the vehicular version of the cowgirl position. This happens when the woman rests on the lap of a man seated in the driver’s seat or the passenger seat.
There is so much that can be done in this position. The woman can straddle the man. He only needs to open his zipper while she can lift her dress and remove her panty. Then, she can ease herself onto him, easily hitting her G spot.
He can also freely simulate her this way through kissing her and even squeezing or sucking her breasts.
The other way around can work, as well. The woman can face the front, using the steering wheel or the glove compartment as leverage. She is truly a cowgirl in this position, taking charge.
If you or your partner is in a giving mood, oral sex is one of the easiest ways to do it in a car. One just has to go down while the other is seated, thighs open.
You can choose to do it in front, like on the passenger seat, if you don’t want the giver to get his/her back dug into by the steering wheel. The backseat can make this possible, of course. However, you don’t really need a lot of space for this position.
Sexual intercourse in a car can be a lot rougher. It can be wild and exciting. After all, those who try to do it are either looking for something different or are meeting illicitly.
If you want to express that wildness, you can go for doggy style. The backseat is the easiest place to do it.
The woman can go on all fours on the backseat. The man can take his position at the back and penetrate her this way.
If you are the woman, you can also decide to hug the passenger seat from the back as your partner enters you from behind. This way, you can get something to hold on to, as you two near your climax.
If you want something more refined and romantic, you can try tantric sex. The om position can get the two of you into a relaxed mood.
Get your man to make a lotus position on a car seat. Then, straddle him and wrap your legs around it. The penetrative sex here is almost Zen-like and done through slow, gently rocking motions. This is your total opposite to the quick and frantic doggy style. You may want to do this if you have a lot of time on your hands.
The missionary position may have been your go-to position. However, you have come this far. You have already picked a different location for more excitement.
Best Places for Sex in Car
How you can make the most of the various spots in your car depends on you.
However, the backseat has the most space for many car sex positions.
On the other hand, the driver’s seat and the passenger seat can also provide some exciting sex while you are snuggled close to your boyfriend.
Tips for Not Getting Caught
Okay, here is the thing. The best thing not to get caught is not to have sex in a public space in the first place.
If you are caught near a school, for example, you may end up being branded a sex offender. Getting caught may also mean a ride into something less fun – a police car! You may even spend some time in jail for a misdemeanor.
However, if the thought of public sex arouses you, you may still want to do it with the right person – someone as adventurous as you. Both of you should be clearly aware that a cop can knock at the windows at any time you two are getting it in a public place.
- Do it in the darkness of night.
If you live in a fairly sleepy town, you may not get caught having sex in your parked car.
- Choose your location wisely.
You may have to skip the parking lot of a brightly lit convenience store. One, your rocking car may get illuminated. Two, convenience stores may be open 24/7. Nothing is too late for that area.
- Start your foreplay earlier
As safely as you can, you can already start foreplay earlier. Perhaps the hand under the skirt from time to time can work. Don’t distract the driver too much, though. You can also begin your foreplay on a dimly lit dance floor where you can touch each other intimately in public – and nobody cares.
You could have planned out the encounter beforehand. This way, the two of you can immediately get started right after the car parks.
Or you can read our article from beginning to end – again.
Hopefully, it got you a little warm for some car sex quickie.
- Be quiet
This one goes without saying. While the whole rendezvous can give you the best sex of your life, bite that pleasure in. You don’t want an officer getting alerted of your activities.
- Wear the right clothes
With the right clothes, you don’t need to completely strip to have penetrative sex. Just ease them on the side, and you are good to go. This way, if you hear any footsteps, the two of you can easily get off each other and act normally.
- Keep the positions simple
This is not the time to bring out your arsenal of sex positions. The simplest sex acts, such as reverse car girl, may make things a little more innocent.
Is car sex legal or illegal?
Car sex is not technically illegal. There are no rules that blatantly say so. However, public sex is illicit. So, it is best not to get caught in the act in public.
What are considered public places?
Possible public spots you may trespass with sexual acts are parking lots, busy alleys, and public parks.
What is considered part of lewd acts?
Sexual intercourse is one, of course. Then, touching private parts (breasts, genitals, and buttocks) for sexual satisfaction is also considered a lewd act.
What are possible penalties?
You could be slapped with up to 6 months of jail time, sometimes with a $1000 fine, as well. At least, this is the case with California.